No.Mostreputablemedicalandpsychologicalassociations,suchastheAmericanPsychologicalAssociationandtheAmericanPsychiatricAssociation,agreethathomosexualityisnotadiseaseorconditionand,thus,thatitcannotandshouldnotbetreatedorcured.However,therearereligiousgroupsandhospitalsthatdoadvocate“curing”homosexualitythroughcounseling,prayer,andtherapy.Somehomosexualsseekoutsuchorganizationstohelpthembecomeheterosexual.
Objectivestudieshaveshownthatthistreatmentfailsandmayevenperpetuateseriousproblems.Thosewhoundergothistreatmentdesiresomuchtobe“normal”asaresultofsocialorreligiouspressurethattheyultimatelyrepresstheirsexualdesires,whichcancauseintensepsychologicaldamage,includinganxiety,depression,anddrugoralcoholaddiction.Manyso-called“ex-gays”oftenlivecelibatelivesorstruggletomakeheterosexualmarriageswork.Others,whohaveundergonetreatment,havereturnedtobeinggayandadmittedthatthetreatmentfailed.
14.WhatistherelationshipbetweengaysandAIDS?
ThereisnoscientificconnectionbetweenhomosexualsandtheAIDSvirus.AtonetimepeoplebelievedthatallgayshadAIDSorthatonlygayscouldcontractAIDS,because,intheearlyyearsofthedisease,thegaycommunitywasstrucksodisproportionatelyhardbythevirusthatAIDSbecameknownas“thegaydisease”.Graduallypeoplerealizedthatstraightmenandwomenoftencontractedthediseaseaswell,anddoctorsunderstoodthatthevirusistransmittedbyexchangesofcertainbodilyfluids,especiallybloodandsemen.ItisnowuniversallyacknowledgedthattheriskofexposuretoHIVresultsfromanindividual’sbehaviorandnottheirsexualorientation.
GaysareneitherthesourcenorthesolecarriersoftheAIDSvirus.Theyaremerelyonegroupofthe40millionvictimsworld-wide.Manyofthesevictimsfaceostracism,discrimination,andviolencefrompeoplewhofearthattheycouldbecomeeasilyinfectedwiththevirusorfrompeoplewhoassociateAIDSwithcertainsocialgroupsthattheyoppose.Casualcontact,liketouchingorholdinghands,breathing,andsharingrestrooms
cannotspreadthedisease.Thebestwaystoavoidthevirusarenottoshareneedlesandpracticesafe-sex.Practicingsafe-sexmeansusinganew,cleancondomeverytime.
15.Whydogaysandlesbiansflaunttheirsexuality?
Aperson’ssexualityorsexualorientationispartoftheiridentity.Whilenotallgaysandlesbianschooseto“comeout”ormaketheirsexualorientationpublic,manydoandchoosetopubliclyexhibitprideinthispartoftheiridentity.Theymightdothisbyholdinghandsinpublic,marchingingayprideparades,orevensimplytalkingabouttheirpartnersorrelationships.Forgaymenandwomenthisisawaytoavoidbeingperceivedasheterosexualandtoliveanhonestlife.Everyoneseekstofreelyexpressthemselvesinsomeway,andmostgaypeopledosowithoutstraightpeopleevernoticing.Manygaymenandwomenmayalsomaketheirsexualitypublictoincreasetoleranceandawarenessaboutgayissues.
16.Ishomosexualityimmoral?
Whetherhomosexualityisimmoralwillcertainlydependonwhooneasks,butitisclearthatinthelastseveraldecadesmoreandmorepeoplebelievethatitismorallyacceptable.RecentpollsalsoshowthattherearesignificantdifferencesofopiniononthisissuebetweenAmericansdependingontheirage,location,politicalaffiliation,andreligiousbeliefs.Becauseattitudeshavediffered,itwouldbewrongtosaythathomosexualityhasorisgenerallyoralwaysregardedasimmoral.Manyscholarsandofficialsaroundtheworldhavenotedthatviewsonthemoralityofhomosexualityarechangingforthebetter,muchinthesamewaythatthebeliefthatinterracialmarriagewasimmoralchangedmarkedlyoverthecourseofthe20thcentury.
17.InthewestCountries,areallreligionsagainsthomosexuality?
No.Allreligionsarenotagainsthomosexualityandmanyreligiouspeopleopenlyaccepthomosexuals.Manygaysandlesbiansarereligiousindividualsandmembersofchurches.SeveralchurchesintheUnitedStateshavesignificantgayandlesbianpopulationsandsomeofthemalsohavegayandlesbianministers.CongregationsintheMethodistChurch,theAnglicanChurch,theUnitarianChurch,andtheLutheranChurch,amongothers,haveshowntolerancetowardsgaysandlesbians.Somechurcheshave,despitethegovernment’snon-recognitionofgaymarriageinmostplaces,beguntoperformsame-sexmarriageceremonies.Thereisnothinginherentlyincompatibleabouthomosexualityandreligion.
Studieshaveshown,however,thatreligionisoneofthemajorcausesofintolerancetowardshomosexualsandthatareaswithahigherpercentageofdevoutlyreligiouspeopletendtobemoreanti-gay.Somechurcheshavehadintenseinternaldebatesaboutallowinggaymenandwomentoserveasministersandtheissuehaseventhreatenedtodividechurchleaders.
18.Ishomosexualityorhomosexualbehavioracrime?
Anincreasingnumberofcountriesaroundtheworldhaveabolishedlawsthatcriminalizehomosexualsexualconduct,andveryfewnationshaveevercriminalizedtheactualstatusofbeinghomosexual.TheearliestlawscriminalizinghomosexualsexualconductcomefromJewishandChristianreligioustexts.Consequently,manyChristianandMuslimnationsoriginallybannedand,insomecases,stillbanhomosexualintercourse.Forexample,theIslamicRepublicofIranstrictlyforbidshomosexualintercourseandexecutesmensuspectedofbeinggay.Othernationsmaypunishhomosexualbehaviorundermoregeneralstatutesrelatingtomoralityorsexualbehavior.