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No.Mostreputablemedicalandpsychologicalassociations,suchastheAmericanPsychologicalAssociationandtheAmericanPsychiatricAssociation,agreethathomosexualityisnotadiseaseorconditionand,thus,thatitcannotandshouldnotbetreatedorcured.However,therearereligiousgroupsandhospitalsthatdoadvocate“curing”homosexualitythroughcounseling,prayer,andtherapy.Somehomosexualsseekoutsuchorganizationstohelpthembecomeheterosexual.

Objectivestudieshaveshownthatthistreatmentfailsandmayevenperpetuateseriousproblems.Thosewhoundergothistreatmentdesiresomuchtobe“normal”asaresultofsocialorreligiouspressurethattheyultimatelyrepresstheirsexualdesires,whichcancauseintensepsychologicaldamage,includinganxiety,depression,anddrugoralcoholaddiction.Manyso-called“ex-gays”oftenlivecelibatelivesorstruggletomakeheterosexualmarriageswork.Others,whohaveundergonetreatment,havereturnedtobeinggayandadmittedthatthetreatmentfailed.

14.WhatistherelationshipbetweengaysandAIDS?

ThereisnoscientificconnectionbetweenhomosexualsandtheAIDSvirus.AtonetimepeoplebelievedthatallgayshadAIDSorthatonlygayscouldcontractAIDS,because,intheearlyyearsofthedisease,thegaycommunitywasstrucksodisproportionatelyhardbythevirusthatAIDSbecameknownas“thegaydisease”.Graduallypeoplerealizedthatstraightmenandwomenoftencontractedthediseaseaswell,anddoctorsunderstoodthatthevirusistransmittedbyexchangesofcertainbodilyfluids,especiallybloodandsemen.ItisnowuniversallyacknowledgedthattheriskofexposuretoHIVresultsfromanindividual’sbehaviorandnottheirsexualorientation.

GaysareneitherthesourcenorthesolecarriersoftheAIDSvirus.Theyaremerelyonegroupofthe40millionvictimsworld-wide.Manyofthesevictimsfaceostracism,discrimination,andviolencefrompeoplewhofearthattheycouldbecomeeasilyinfectedwiththevirusorfrompeoplewhoassociateAIDSwithcertainsocialgroupsthattheyoppose.Casualcontact,liketouchingorholdinghands,breathing,andsharingrestrooms

cannotspreadthedisease.Thebestwaystoavoidthevirusarenottoshareneedlesandpracticesafe-sex.Practicingsafe-sexmeansusinganew,cleancondomeverytime.

15.Whydogaysandlesbiansflaunttheirsexuality?

Aperson’ssexualityorsexualorientationispartoftheiridentity.Whilenotallgaysandlesbianschooseto“comeout”ormaketheirsexualorientationpublic,manydoandchoosetopubliclyexhibitprideinthispartoftheiridentity.Theymightdothisbyholdinghandsinpublic,marchingingayprideparades,orevensimplytalkingabouttheirpartnersorrelationships.Forgaymenandwomenthisisawaytoavoidbeingperceivedasheterosexualandtoliveanhonestlife.Everyoneseekstofreelyexpressthemselvesinsomeway,andmostgaypeopledosowithoutstraightpeopleevernoticing.Manygaymenandwomenmayalsomaketheirsexualitypublictoincreasetoleranceandawarenessaboutgayissues.

16.Ishomosexualityimmoral?

Whetherhomosexualityisimmoralwillcertainlydependonwhooneasks,butitisclearthatinthelastseveraldecadesmoreandmorepeoplebelievethatitismorallyacceptable.RecentpollsalsoshowthattherearesignificantdifferencesofopiniononthisissuebetweenAmericansdependingontheirage,location,politicalaffiliation,andreligiousbeliefs.Becauseattitudeshavediffered,itwouldbewrongtosaythathomosexualityhasorisgenerallyoralwaysregardedasimmoral.Manyscholarsandofficialsaroundtheworldhavenotedthatviewsonthemoralityofhomosexualityarechangingforthebetter,muchinthesamewaythatthebeliefthatinterracialmarriagewasimmoralchangedmarkedlyoverthecourseofthe20thcentury.

17.InthewestCountries,areallreligionsagainsthomosexuality?

No.Allreligionsarenotagainsthomosexualityandmanyreligiouspeopleopenlyaccepthomosexuals.Manygaysandlesbiansarereligiousindividualsandmembersofchurches.SeveralchurchesintheUnitedStateshavesignificantgayandlesbianpopulationsandsomeofthemalsohavegayandlesbianministers.CongregationsintheMethodistChurch,theAnglicanChurch,theUnitarianChurch,andtheLutheranChurch,amongothers,haveshowntolerancetowardsgaysandlesbians.Somechurcheshave,despitethegovernment’snon-recognitionofgaymarriageinmostplaces,beguntoperformsame-sexmarriageceremonies.Thereisnothinginherentlyincompatibleabouthomosexualityandreligion.

Studieshaveshown,however,thatreligionisoneofthemajorcausesofintolerancetowardshomosexualsandthatareaswithahigherpercentageofdevoutlyreligiouspeopletendtobemoreanti-gay.Somechurcheshavehadintenseinternaldebatesaboutallowinggaymenandwomentoserveasministersandtheissuehaseventhreatenedtodividechurchleaders.

18.Ishomosexualityorhomosexualbehavioracrime?

Anincreasingnumberofcountriesaroundtheworldhaveabolishedlawsthatcriminalizehomosexualsexualconduct,andveryfewnationshaveevercriminalizedtheactualstatusofbeinghomosexual.TheearliestlawscriminalizinghomosexualsexualconductcomefromJewishandChristianreligioustexts.Consequently,manyChristianandMuslimnationsoriginallybannedand,insomecases,stillbanhomosexualintercourse.Forexample,theIslamicRepublicofIranstrictlyforbidshomosexualintercourseandexecutesmensuspectedofbeinggay.Othernationsmaypunishhomosexualbehaviorundermoregeneralstatutesrelatingtomoralityorsexualbehavior.

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